Testimonials

Diane. W.

"I have had the honor and pleasure of knowing Melissa , The Sober New Yorker, since this past spring where we met at a sober women’s retreat.
I immediately felt a connection with her. She has since been a very important part of my recovery.

I had a slip after the retreat that left me feeling so completely broken.
She was able to help me pick myself back up, dust myself off and start again holding my head high.
She offered not only a compassionate ear but leant me skills and tools that helped her stay sober and strong. 

For instance: remembering my “why” , why do I want to live my life alcohol free?And reminding me that alcohol serves no purpose in my life.

Reminding me to HALT when cravings arise. And encouraged me to keep my physical appointment with my physician that I had kept putting off because I feared it might not be so good because of my recent binges.

But most importantly, Melissa made me feel heard, loved and respected as a fellow woman trying to get sober. There was ZERO shame or guilt.
I am so very grateful for having Melissa in my corner!! "                            

Susie L.

"Melissa is such a guide to AND through sobriety. Not just the wisdom and soul searching, but also practical real world advice and role playing for real life situations. She guided me through family situations, a high school reunion and making powerful requests. She knows, because she's BEEN there.  She will get you through!"

Sue B.

"Melissa has an incredible way of making you feel instantly comfortable even in a crowd of strangers. That was my experience when I first met her at and alcohol free event in NYC. Today I get that same feeling when I listen to her podcast "The Sober New Yorker".  Her natural ability to connect and coach shines through in everything she does. If you're looking for someone who truly GETS it, don't hesitate - she's the real deal."

Maya B.

"I've tried getting sober for years and have tried just about everything. I finally decided I needed the extra accountability and help of a private sober coach. It was the best decision. Melissa helped me take all the tools I’ve learned and actually use them successfully. When I didn’t think I could do it, she would remind me why I could and helped me keep moving forward. With her help I finally got 30+ sober days under my belt. I’m forever grateful."

Katie D.

"Melissa's motivation is infectious. If I ever feel any doubts creep in about my new choices, I go to her and my mind gets immediately back on track. I don't know how she does it, but I'm so grateful. She is the walking embodiment of a sober rich fabulous life and it makes me go after mine!"